Saturday, January 25, 2014

Snippets from November

There's good reason as to why it's the end of January and I haven't updated the blog over the past few months - it's been BUSY!  But a good busy.  We've bought a house, gotten our house ready to be put on the market (which was WAY more work than I ever realized it would be), showed our home 11 times in a 9 day period, sold our house (within 12 days of listing it), celebrated the holidays as well as Jenna and Drew's birthdays, and had surgery on Hannah's eyes, along with all the regular, day-to-day tasks.  But more on all that later.  For now, here are a few snapshots from November:



Our tradition of Christmas tree shopping the day after Thanksgiving.  Thankfully this year the weather was quite nice.

We found the tree!

Going on a wagon ride.

We went to a Cedarville basketball game with some close friends who are also CU grads.

Despite their somber faces, the kids LOVE going to CU basketball games!

We got to some spend quality time with these cuties...overnight!  They're so much fun!

Love the twin cuteness!

Went to Jenna's Thanksgiving party at school.

All smiles, as usual

Straightened her hair on a whim one day and can't believe how different she looks...and grown up!

Celebrated Thanksgiving

Had a visit from Superman!

And Supergirl!



 
One night we heard a thud and ran upstairs to find that Grant had fallen out of bed...and hadn't even woken up.  Poor guy must have been exhausted!


We had a visit from B...

...which we all loved!

More Hannah cuteness


Snapshot with my baby

Grant enjoying some fresh air

Grant's way of picking up the toys is to just put everything on the couches.  Hmmm....not exactly how that works, but good try, buddy.

Decorating the Christmas tree.  I had a brainstorm this year to hang the ornaments on the drying rack to make it easier for the kids to help.  Plus it kept the process moving so they weren't waiting on me to get all the ornaments hooked.


I love reading to them before bed.

Freshly bathed!

We went out to lunch with some friends from church and Jenna and her friend Emma went to a separate booth to draw and color.  So cute!

Grant and his cousins showed up to Thanksgiving at my grandparent's house wearing the same shirts. Somehow Kelley managed to take this picture before they all started wrestling together.  They sure love each other!

Sunday, January 19, 2014

Hannah - 9, 10, and 11 months old

My, how the past two months have been extremely busy!  I've missed updating on Hannah and thought I'd just combine her 9, 10, and 11 month pictures into one post.

9 months old
So much has happened over the past three months with Hannah that it will be difficult to recap every detail, but I will try.  The biggest issue we dealt with was her vision.  We decided to get a 2nd opinion from another ophthalmologist in Cincinnati before jumping into surgery.  She recommended patching her "good" eye 4-6 hours a day for 6 weeks in order to make her "bad" eye work.  We did that and saw little to no improvement, so she scheduled us for surgery; however, in thinking about it more, we decided to go back to the Dayton ophthalmologist we had originally seen for the surgery.  He's more experienced and has done many of these surgeries.  However, in going back to him, he thought her vision had gotten worse since he last saw her and so he wanted us to patch her "good" eye exclusively for 2 weeks before having her surgery.  We did and saw some improvement in her "bad" eye, so surgery was scheduled for Jan. 2nd; however, the night before she came down with a fever (that lasted less than 18hrs) and so surgery was cancelled.  It was then rescheduled for this past Thursday, Jan. 16th.  Surgery went well, but we won't know how successful it was for a few weeks when we go back to see the doctor.  She has handled the surgery so well, and jumped back to her normal self the following day.  The inside areas of both eyes are red and will probably stay red for a few weeks.  At this point, her eyes are probably still adjusting to the change, but it's difficult because her "good" eye is now looking like it's crossing toward the outside, which makes me nervous that she'll need more surgeries in the future.  So I'm trying to be patient and not play "doctor."  I'm definitely anxious for the follow-up appointment on Friday, Jan. 31st.


10 months old

10 months old
Just before Hannah turned 10 months old, we met up with a neurologist from Cincinnati for a 2nd opinion on her MRI.  We've been unsettled what the first neurologist told us and just feel there are inconsistencies with what he said and what we're seeing in Hannah.  This neurologist classified her as having moderate CP on the scale of mild-moderate-severe.  Even though that's a worse scenario than we were originally told, it makes much more sense to us, and amazingly enough to our therapists when we told them what he said.  They all agreed that she seems more "moderate" to them as well.  He also explained that there is damage in her right frontal lobe, which is the executive functioning area, meaning personality, inhibitions, and higher level thinking.  We won't know specifically how those areas will be affected, just that they will.  He also said that there is damage all around her brain and with her brain being smaller, that all areas will be affected to some degree - visual, speech, and "artsy" areas.  So we will just have to wait and see how that affects her.



11 months old
 Hannah was having some problems with eating, reflux, and gagging, so our doctor ordered a swallow study and upper GI test.  We had both of those done and no problems were found - yay!!  And in fact, we've noticed some improvement in her reflux, although she does still spit up some.  Her home therapist recommended we put her on some probiotics (and prebiotics) to help with the reflux, so we're going to give that a try soon.
11 months old
In December, we also had our first meeting with the CP team at Dayton Children's.  It was a 3-hour appointment and we stayed in a room and different specialists took turns visiting us.  We met with a developmental pediatrician, orthopedic surgeon, speech pathologist, physical therapist, nurse coordinator, and car seat specialist.  The speech pathologist said Hannah seemed on track with her speech, but she gave us some suggestions to help with her eating.  The orthopedic surgeon checked her out and said her hips and back look good (which apparently can be an issue with children with CP), and then talked with us about her spasticity (muscles having a difficult time relaxing - resisting movement), as well as what to look for in the future - contractures (muscles contracting), scoliosis, x-rays, and usually a loss of coordination with gross and fine motor skills.  Something else he told us that we found informative was that TYPICALLY if a child can sit independently by 2 years of age, he will usually be able to walk eventually.  So, overall, it was a very good appointment with lots of information. We go back to see them again in March.

11 months old

 We are so thankful that Hannah is such a happy baby!  She smiles so easily and with her entire face.  We still have not gotten her to roll from her back to her tummy, which is something we have GOT to get her to do.  It's foundational for lots of other milestones - getting up on her hands and knees, crawling, going from laying down to sitting, etc.  We've also been working on her sitting and have seen her getting stronger.  If we prop her just right, she can sometimes sit by herself for 10 seconds or so, but then she easily topples over.  Right now, it's just key for us to get her stronger, which will be a challenge since she's low-tone, meaning that her muscles are weaker.  But we will keep working on it!  One thing with Hannah is we've had to appreciate the smaller things that you typically don't really recognize with a normal developing child.  Over the past 4 months of therapy, she's gained better head control, started opening her hands more and doing some grasping, brought her hands to midline (both hands to the middle of her body), brought objects to her mouth, done some transferring of toys from one hand to the other (usually by accident, but we'll take it!), and some increased strength in her core/stomach area.  To be honest, I thought she would be progressing at a much faster rate than she is, so it's been eye-opening for me and a bit of a reality check.  It feels as if we're moving at a snails pace, while everyone else is passing us by, but then I remind myself of the progress she has made. It might be slow, but it's progress.  So we will continue with therapy and continue to pray for her development.


Sunday, November 17, 2013

October Misc.

The months keep flying by...here are some random snapshots from October.


Grant loves his Lincoln Logs

Both Jenna and Grant have mostly dropped their naps, but I do require "quiet time."  Usually they just look at books on their beds.  On this particular day I realized it was rather quiet and this was what I found when I checked on them - fast asleep.  Jenna has a book open on her lap, but the funniest part is Grant's complete surrender to his tiredness - he didn't even try to stay awake (he's conked out under the covers).  :)

A friend from high school sent us this toy for Hannah to encourage her to reach for her toys.  So sweet!  Perfect for those times we're out and about and can't really work with her. 

Jenna's sweet picture she drew of Dad and Mom.  :)

The kids enjoying some iPad time on the bed.  Funny how it looks like Hannah's actually participating too. 

Love this picture of Grant and his "Hannah Banana" (as he calls her)

Her first bite of food - sweet potatoes.  It was not very successful, mostly due to her tongue thrusting, but that's another area that we've seen improvement in over the past month.  Her feedings have been going MUCH better and we're actually able to get food in her mouth (for the most part) now.  The bigger struggle now is just keeping her head up enough to feed her.  She tends to slouch and her head slumps forward - although that's something else that is improving as well.

Grant, Hannah, and I at Target while Jenna's at preschool.  I just couldn't resist his request for popcorn.  Hannah slept the whole time, so it turned out to be a fun date for him and me.

The kids "helping" Drew pack the car for our trip to Norris Lake.

This past month we went down to Cincinnati Children's Hospital for a 2nd opinion on her diagnosis as well as her eyes.  The meeting with the CP team concerning her diagnosis was a BUST.  It wasn't what we were looking for, and we didn't care for the physician we saw.  I called multiple times before the appointment to make sure the person we met with would be able to read the MRI results AND view the scans to give us her opinion on them...however, come to find out at the appointment, she's not too familiar with reading the scans, nor did she really want to answer many of our questions.  It was disappointing and frustrating to say the least.  Thankfully the eye appointment went MUCH better.  This doctor recommended we patch her good eye (to make the crossed eye work harder!) for 4-6 hours a day for 6 weeks.  Then she'll reevaluate her eyes and see whether she'll need surgery.  She did say that she thinks Hannah will still need the surgery, but we at least liked the idea of trying to strengthen the eye muscles before permanently altering their physiology.  So we've been patching and go back to see her in a little over a week.  Also, we have made an appointment with an actual neurologist this time and will be meeting with her on December 9th - so hopefully we'll be able to get a true 2nd opinion and some answers to our questions then.

Grant was laying on the couch and Bailey jumped up next to him and laid down.  That's pretty significant for this dog who usually wants nothing to do with the kids.  :)

Couldn't resist capturing this terribly awkward sleeping position of Jenna's.  Poor thing!

Hannah loves the rattle!  We're realizing she needs thin toys to hold on to because it's still difficult for her hands to open and grasp objects.  So anything thick is out of the question for her to hold.  But this rattle is a great size and she likes banging it on the floor...or her head. 

Proof of the patching.  The eye doctor gave us some samples of the patches to use at home; however, they were just the ugly brown band-aid color, so of course I had to go online and find some cute ones for her.  I figure if she's got to wear them everyday, she might as well be stylin! 

We went to pick Grant up from childcare at the evening service at church and this is how we found him...fast asleep!!  Poor guy must have needed a nap that day and just ran out of gas early.  :)

Snapped a picture of me and my pooch at the vet's office - poor guy had an eye ulcer.

Jenna LOVES playing with Hannah and "working" with her.

While at Hobby Lobby, Grant picked up this Christmas decoration and made some comment about it being a birthday hat!

PRECIOUS!!

We watched our nephews one night and even got to give them a bath. Love them!

Tummy time!  She's doing much better with her head control, although she doesn't keep her head up for long.  So we still need to work on strengthening her neck and back muscles.

More playtime.  Love my girls!

This was supposed to be a picture of her two bottom teeth that poked through almost overnight!

During the government shutdown, we decided to tackle some BIG projects.  I don't think either of us really knew what we were getting ourselves into!  We painted the kid's beds white...and it took...FOREVER.  Not something I'm wanting to do again anytime soon.

The kids wanted to paint too, so Drew set them up with some extra pieces of wood and paint.

Not sure why he thought this was a good idea. :) Trust me, I had no part in it.  Although it was fun for the kids, it was a HUGE mess to clean up afterward.   Mental note for the future - if the kids want to paint, pull out their watercolor paints, not latex paint! ;)

One of the downsides of having a sister - future blackmail pictures!  And let me just say, this isn't the first time we've caught him playing with her My Little Ponies.  :)

Jenna was making Hannah giggle with the pogo stick that squeaks when you jump on it.  It was hilarious!

Fast asleep

A few times we've put Hannah in the bathtub with Jenna.  Jenna holds her and we try to have Hannah splash the water with her hands.  She really seems to enjoy it, as does big sister. 

They sure are buds!

A few months back, the Occupational Therapist recommended we get a thumb splint for Hannah's right hand.  She tends to keep her thumb tucked in her fist, which can actually cause muscle contractures (the shortening of muscles).  So the thumb splint helps keep the thumb out.  We typically just keep it on her at night because she's not able to grasp toys with it on, and it tends to irritate the skin between her thumb and pointer finger. 

Bedtime for my baby.  Yes, she's in Grant's "old" room, and no we haven't painted it.  I figure eventually we'll move her in with Jenna and Grant will be back in his room.  We'll see though.