Wednesday, July 16, 2014

Indiana

Somewhere a few years back, I read about a family that made it their goal to visit all 50 states before their kids graduated from high school.  They research ahead of time and visit the "top" sites for that state and then document it in a journal or scrapbook.  We loved the idea and decided to give it a try.  We wanted to start once the kids were old enough to remember and appreciate it, so we thought this summer would be a good time to start.  We decided to start somewhat local and spent the weekend in Indiana.  We went to the Indianapolis Zoo on Friday, the Indianapolis Children's Museum on Saturday, and the Soldiers and Sailors Monument on Sunday.  We had a GREAT time!

We drove to the zoo Friday morning on July 11th.  As we were driving we saw a sign for a Seven-Eleven and Drew remembered hearing that you could get free slushies on 7/11, so we pulled off and picked some up for the kids and us.  You can't beat FREE!

Family picture at the zoo - ready to begin our adventure

There was a shark pool where you could "pet" sharks.  We waited and waited, but the sharks apparently didn't want to come close enough to be touched.  This was as close as Jenna got, and although it looks like she's petting it, she just missed it.  But it did touch her as it's tail flapped back and forth.

Grant got close to them, but never got to touch them.

They had a new orangutan exhibit that opened a few months prior.  We were able to get really close to this guy.

Hannah's sweet, happy self.

The kids searching for the animals.

Baboons sitting in the shade in the background.

Grant watching the elephants.

They have a dolphin show at the zoo that you can go to as long as you get (free) tickets ahead of time.  It was really neat to watch the dolphins jump out of the water, splash their tails, and interact with the trainers.  The kids loved it, as did we!  It was the highlight of the trip for me.

Waiting for the dolphin show to start.

There's also a butterfly house just outside the zoo that is included in the zoo admission price.  We were told if we held still and put our hand out, butterflies might land on you.  Jenna waited and waited for the butterflies to land on her and then got frustrated when they didn't.  :)


Friday was also "Dress like a cow" day at Chick-Fil-A.  If you dress like a cow, you can get your whole meal FREE.  So of course we had to participate.  We packed our white clothes and Hannah's cow sleeper that she got from Brian and Natalie.  I cut black spots out of construction paper and printed cow heads that we made into hats.  Success!  Two free combo meals, and three free kids meals - yum!

It's always such a treat for the kids to stay in a hotel.  Drew had some free hotel nights from all his business travels and so we stayed in a Springhill Suites hotel.  Jenna and Grant had a blast talking to each other on the two phones in the room.


Hannah enjoyed some play time on the bed.
Saturday we went to the Children's Museum.  The building is so cool with some dinosaurs crawling into (and out of) the building! 

We got there right around the time it opens at 10am and stayed until it closed at 5pm.  It was amazing!  We could have easily stayed longer and didn't even make it through the whole museum by the time it closed.  We were dragging the kids through some of it trying to keep them moving so we could see it all.  It's a great museum.  I'm sure we'll be back at some point.

Smiley girl!

There was a slide just inside the entrance.  Since we got there early, there wasn't much of a line, so the kids went down the slide a few times before we headed on into the museum.

Hannah (and I) even got to go down the slide.

There is a carousel on the top floor that only costs $1, so the three kids (and Drew) rode the carousel.

Grant and Drew assembled this archway.  So proud!

They got to sit in a race car.


There was an area for kids 5 and under that we spent the most time in.  In that area was a space for babies and toddlers.  It was PERFECT for Hannah with lots of sensory input.  She loved getting out of the stroller and being able to stand at the bench seating.

Grant spent the most time at the sand table.  There was a rotating disk in it for the kids to put sand on, and then scrape off and make designs as it rotated.

Hannah and I spent the most time sitting in front of this "Push and Whoosh" board.  When you push a big red button, air blows all around inside the case and makes the flowers fly around.  Hannah LOVED it!  So much so that I was pondering whether Drew would be able to build one.  Ha!  Some therapy benefits of it were that it caused her to lift her head to look up at the flowers, it allows her to practice her sitting, it teaches her cause and effect, she had to open her hands to push the button, plus she had to reach to push the button. Although she never pushed the button on her own, I would take her hand, open it up, and push the button, while saying, "PUSH." 

They had a China theme at the museum, so there was an area where you could dress up.

And a restaurant with Chinese food.  Jenna and Grant loved "cooking" the food for us and then serving it to us at the small restaurant tables there.  Jenna was completely in server mode and even carried the tray on her arm.  She'd bring us our food and then come back a little later with the tray to clear our dishes.

Then she spotted the veterinarian area where you could care for the pandas and she rushed over there. 

This sculpture is the centerpiece to the museum and it's amazing!  It's all blown glass and is four stories tall. 

With only a few minutes left we made it down to the very bottom where they had the dinosaur display.  We didn't even know it was down there and so we missed out on really getting to enjoy it, so I guess we'll just have to go back another time!  The kids did dress like dinosaurs and give us their scary dinosaur faces.

After the museum we went to a local pizza place that my friend, Angela told me about. 

What's so unique about it is that you sit in booths next to a train track and your drinks are delivered on the train.  You just lift the glass and get your drinks out.  Needless to say, we had to get a few refills!  :)  Thanks Ang for telling us about it!  The kids LOVED it too!!

Me and my baby girl

Me and my big girl - I love how she put her arm around my shoulders.  :)

The boys

Of course we had to enjoy the hotel pool while there.  This hotel even had a "hot pool" as the kids called it. 

All three of them love their swimming time!

Hannah took a nap Sunday morning before we headed out.

Post nap beauty.  I just love this picture of Drew and Hannah!


When I was looking up things to do in Indiana, practically all the sites said to visit the Soldiers and Sailors Monument in the center of the city.

It's 284 feet 6 inches tall and was the first monument in the United States to be dedicated to the common soldier.  It's also the largest outdoor memorial.  You have the option of climbing all 331 steps or taking an elevator to the top.  In our opinion, you can't go to the top without a sense of accomplishment in climbing all 331 steps!  So we climbed all the way to the top. 

Grant led the whole way up!  I don't think he stopped once to catch his breath.  The rest of us took a few breathers along the way.  It wasn't too bad of a hike, but we definitely felt it the next day!

We made it!!!  At the top, you can see the entire city.

Amazing views.

When we got back to the bottom, Grant went straight for the couch and laid down.  Ha!  :) 
It was a great weekend getaway.  I'm already ready for another one.  :)
























Tuesday, July 15, 2014

Blog Name Change

I have missed blogging terribly!  There's something so nice about sharing with family and friends what's going on in our lives, while also keeping a family journal of sorts.  I've missed that.  I keep thinking I'll "get back into it," but life continues to stay busy.  While I've been desiring to start blogging again, I've also been pondering a name change to our blog.  When we originally started the blog over 6 years ago, we just wanted an easy way to share pictures with our family and friends across the country, so Drew picked out a simple title - "What's Happening with Drew and Kristin."  Now it seems so...boring...and outdated seeing as how there are now three little munchkins since the blog was created.

So I've pondered and debated what to title the blog.  Our life has taken quite a turn since adding Hannah and learning of her disability, and I wanted to incorporate that (very significant) part of our life into this blog.  So we've decided to title it "Given Grace," because it is just so fitting.  We obviously picked out the name Hannah before we knew of her disability, but not too long after learning of her diagnosis of Cerebral Palsy, we discovered that the meaning of the name Hannah is "grace."  How perfect!  If you remember Hannah's birth story, it was one that could have ended very badly, but I truly believe that God was gracious to us in allowing Hannah to be part of our lives.

We also feel this title is fitting because of God's great grace in our lives.  How loving He is to send his only son, Jesus, to die on the cross, pay the penalty for our sins, and restore a broken relationship with Him.    

"For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith - and this is not from yourselves, it is a gift of God."  - Ephesians 2:8

So it's clear to us that we've been infinitely blessed and undeservedly been...given grace.

Wednesday, February 5, 2014

Hannah Rolled!!

One week from her first birthday and Hannah decided to roll from her back onto her tummy!!  I tried to catch it on video, but was a little late at the start.  She was FLAT on her back initially and then lifted her head, arms, and legs off the ground like she wanted to sit up, but then flopped over onto her side, which is where the video begins.  Then she got preoccupied touching the carpet that she took a short break before finishing her roll, but WE'LL TAKE IT!!  So very proud of her and excited to see her reach another big milestone!  Oh, and watch the entire video - she has a huge grin on her face at the end of it.  Precious!!



I also had to include this video as well.  It cracks me up every time!  I love her squeals and grins! 


Saturday, January 25, 2014

Snippets from November

There's good reason as to why it's the end of January and I haven't updated the blog over the past few months - it's been BUSY!  But a good busy.  We've bought a house, gotten our house ready to be put on the market (which was WAY more work than I ever realized it would be), showed our home 11 times in a 9 day period, sold our house (within 12 days of listing it), celebrated the holidays as well as Jenna and Drew's birthdays, and had surgery on Hannah's eyes, along with all the regular, day-to-day tasks.  But more on all that later.  For now, here are a few snapshots from November:



Our tradition of Christmas tree shopping the day after Thanksgiving.  Thankfully this year the weather was quite nice.

We found the tree!

Going on a wagon ride.

We went to a Cedarville basketball game with some close friends who are also CU grads.

Despite their somber faces, the kids LOVE going to CU basketball games!

We got to some spend quality time with these cuties...overnight!  They're so much fun!

Love the twin cuteness!

Went to Jenna's Thanksgiving party at school.

All smiles, as usual

Straightened her hair on a whim one day and can't believe how different she looks...and grown up!

Celebrated Thanksgiving

Had a visit from Superman!

And Supergirl!



 
One night we heard a thud and ran upstairs to find that Grant had fallen out of bed...and hadn't even woken up.  Poor guy must have been exhausted!


We had a visit from B...

...which we all loved!

More Hannah cuteness


Snapshot with my baby

Grant enjoying some fresh air

Grant's way of picking up the toys is to just put everything on the couches.  Hmmm....not exactly how that works, but good try, buddy.

Decorating the Christmas tree.  I had a brainstorm this year to hang the ornaments on the drying rack to make it easier for the kids to help.  Plus it kept the process moving so they weren't waiting on me to get all the ornaments hooked.


I love reading to them before bed.

Freshly bathed!

We went out to lunch with some friends from church and Jenna and her friend Emma went to a separate booth to draw and color.  So cute!

Grant and his cousins showed up to Thanksgiving at my grandparent's house wearing the same shirts. Somehow Kelley managed to take this picture before they all started wrestling together.  They sure love each other!

Sunday, January 19, 2014

Hannah - 9, 10, and 11 months old

My, how the past two months have been extremely busy!  I've missed updating on Hannah and thought I'd just combine her 9, 10, and 11 month pictures into one post.

9 months old
So much has happened over the past three months with Hannah that it will be difficult to recap every detail, but I will try.  The biggest issue we dealt with was her vision.  We decided to get a 2nd opinion from another ophthalmologist in Cincinnati before jumping into surgery.  She recommended patching her "good" eye 4-6 hours a day for 6 weeks in order to make her "bad" eye work.  We did that and saw little to no improvement, so she scheduled us for surgery; however, in thinking about it more, we decided to go back to the Dayton ophthalmologist we had originally seen for the surgery.  He's more experienced and has done many of these surgeries.  However, in going back to him, he thought her vision had gotten worse since he last saw her and so he wanted us to patch her "good" eye exclusively for 2 weeks before having her surgery.  We did and saw some improvement in her "bad" eye, so surgery was scheduled for Jan. 2nd; however, the night before she came down with a fever (that lasted less than 18hrs) and so surgery was cancelled.  It was then rescheduled for this past Thursday, Jan. 16th.  Surgery went well, but we won't know how successful it was for a few weeks when we go back to see the doctor.  She has handled the surgery so well, and jumped back to her normal self the following day.  The inside areas of both eyes are red and will probably stay red for a few weeks.  At this point, her eyes are probably still adjusting to the change, but it's difficult because her "good" eye is now looking like it's crossing toward the outside, which makes me nervous that she'll need more surgeries in the future.  So I'm trying to be patient and not play "doctor."  I'm definitely anxious for the follow-up appointment on Friday, Jan. 31st.


10 months old

10 months old
Just before Hannah turned 10 months old, we met up with a neurologist from Cincinnati for a 2nd opinion on her MRI.  We've been unsettled what the first neurologist told us and just feel there are inconsistencies with what he said and what we're seeing in Hannah.  This neurologist classified her as having moderate CP on the scale of mild-moderate-severe.  Even though that's a worse scenario than we were originally told, it makes much more sense to us, and amazingly enough to our therapists when we told them what he said.  They all agreed that she seems more "moderate" to them as well.  He also explained that there is damage in her right frontal lobe, which is the executive functioning area, meaning personality, inhibitions, and higher level thinking.  We won't know specifically how those areas will be affected, just that they will.  He also said that there is damage all around her brain and with her brain being smaller, that all areas will be affected to some degree - visual, speech, and "artsy" areas.  So we will just have to wait and see how that affects her.



11 months old
 Hannah was having some problems with eating, reflux, and gagging, so our doctor ordered a swallow study and upper GI test.  We had both of those done and no problems were found - yay!!  And in fact, we've noticed some improvement in her reflux, although she does still spit up some.  Her home therapist recommended we put her on some probiotics (and prebiotics) to help with the reflux, so we're going to give that a try soon.
11 months old
In December, we also had our first meeting with the CP team at Dayton Children's.  It was a 3-hour appointment and we stayed in a room and different specialists took turns visiting us.  We met with a developmental pediatrician, orthopedic surgeon, speech pathologist, physical therapist, nurse coordinator, and car seat specialist.  The speech pathologist said Hannah seemed on track with her speech, but she gave us some suggestions to help with her eating.  The orthopedic surgeon checked her out and said her hips and back look good (which apparently can be an issue with children with CP), and then talked with us about her spasticity (muscles having a difficult time relaxing - resisting movement), as well as what to look for in the future - contractures (muscles contracting), scoliosis, x-rays, and usually a loss of coordination with gross and fine motor skills.  Something else he told us that we found informative was that TYPICALLY if a child can sit independently by 2 years of age, he will usually be able to walk eventually.  So, overall, it was a very good appointment with lots of information. We go back to see them again in March.

11 months old

 We are so thankful that Hannah is such a happy baby!  She smiles so easily and with her entire face.  We still have not gotten her to roll from her back to her tummy, which is something we have GOT to get her to do.  It's foundational for lots of other milestones - getting up on her hands and knees, crawling, going from laying down to sitting, etc.  We've also been working on her sitting and have seen her getting stronger.  If we prop her just right, she can sometimes sit by herself for 10 seconds or so, but then she easily topples over.  Right now, it's just key for us to get her stronger, which will be a challenge since she's low-tone, meaning that her muscles are weaker.  But we will keep working on it!  One thing with Hannah is we've had to appreciate the smaller things that you typically don't really recognize with a normal developing child.  Over the past 4 months of therapy, she's gained better head control, started opening her hands more and doing some grasping, brought her hands to midline (both hands to the middle of her body), brought objects to her mouth, done some transferring of toys from one hand to the other (usually by accident, but we'll take it!), and some increased strength in her core/stomach area.  To be honest, I thought she would be progressing at a much faster rate than she is, so it's been eye-opening for me and a bit of a reality check.  It feels as if we're moving at a snails pace, while everyone else is passing us by, but then I remind myself of the progress she has made. It might be slow, but it's progress.  So we will continue with therapy and continue to pray for her development.